For me love it is a mindset.
So my mindset is that failure is not negative, it is a learning experience that has been labeled as negative by society, which makes you feel bad about yourself, creates doubt… What if you change your relationship with that word?
It is not fail or succeed for me, both are learning experiences. The failures in my opinion is the worlds way of preparing for what is to come, if you are willing to learn the lesson. To succeed in life we have to know how to fail, that is how we learn and come to eventually succeed in life.
Society has labeled everything in our life and we give those things meaning of good or bad. This is a very systematic and a limited way of thinking about our life experiences.
Where did you learn that failure is a negative thing?
How does it serve you to think of failure as a negative experience?
What do you typically do when you feel that you have failed at something?
How does that serve you?
If you are failing Alya, you are on your way to succeed, you are doing something sister, you are not sitting ideal just dreaming of your life, you are living it. Part of living life, is falling down sometimes, so that we can get back up again and see how powerful, resilient and able we truly are.
You my friend are limitless and resourceful.
You have the ability to learn from this experience, which is surely preparing you for the story to come. You get to decide if you are going to waste weeks sitting in the “perceived sadness of failure” or take note of what you did? what did not work? what you can do better?
Just refine baby, keep at it, you will eventually get there.
All is necessary for your growth sugar.
from a sister out there